Photo: Courtesy Eric Stronestreet
WhenEric Stonestreetand his family sat down to brainstorm ways to best honor his dad Vince on the one-year anniversary of his death on Thursday (which was also his birthday), one thing immediately came to mind: “We said, ‘Well, dad loved kids and loved helping kids and nothing broke his heart more than sick kids,” the actor tells PEOPLE. “So let’s focus on that.”
Partnering withKansas City Hospice, Stonestreet joined his mom Jamey and siblings Paul and Mauria in launchingthe Vincent A. Stonestreet Family Fundto support pediatric home health and hospice programs as well as to grant wishes to pediatric patients. “We wanted to make sure that his spirit of generosity was somehow kept alive,” Eric says. “He liked to do things and not get the attention for it. Ultimately, I think this is the best version of that because he’s not here and we’re doing it in spite of him andforhim. He doesn’t have to deal with the people saying thank you to him, which is what I think he hated the most.”
Courtesy Eric Stronestreet
Diagnosed with cancer in 2017, Vince fought the disease for four years until he elected to stop curative treatment. His goal was to make it to his 80th birthday, which he did the day he died. “We made a contribution to the University of Kansas Medical Center and Kansas City Hospice immediately after his passing because we were just so grateful,” says Stonestreet, 51. “And he was so complimentary of and so thankful to everyone who took care of him.”
Acknowledging there are already great programs in place to support pediatric hospice care, “it’s just inevitable that people and wishes fall through the cracks,” Stonestreet says. “So really it was the idea to be there when kids are at the unfortunate end of their life and they have a wish. This fund will help pay for those things.”
Which is just what his dad would have wanted. “It was important to us to make an acute impact in people’s lives,” says the actor. “And he loved doing that. He loved handing someone that he didn’t know a ham at Christmas. He loved buying someone’s lunch. He loved taking people out to dinner. Just little small gifts of kindness is what my dad was all about in addition to big gestures for family members and other close friends. We wanted to carry on his tradition of giving.”
If Stonestreet could talk to his father now, “I just would want him to know that he was a great dad and he did exactly what he said he would do every step of the way,” the actor says. “It was so important for him to do a good job at everything he did. Raising us and providing for my mom and providing for us as a family was really his main focus all through life. I just think he did a great job with everything.”
Most importantly the actor is hopeful his dad’s legacy will foster even more acts of kindness. “What we really wanted to provide was a safe and reliable place for people to give if they want to,” he says. “We as a family had no idea how how much we would appreciate [hospice] when it was over. If this isn’t for you, I hope my dad inspires you to find something that’s near and dear to you— and you’ll give to that.”
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Those wishing to donate or learn more about pediatric hospice care can visitthe Vincent A. Stonestreet Family Fundon the Kansas City Hospicewebsite.
source: people.com
